New Year’s Goal Set? Keep these tips in mind – a fabulous book by David Ellis, Creating Your Future, mentions these five steps to the life of your dreams:

• committing
• creating
• constructing
• carrying out
• and then celebrating

Of all of those committing is the most important..it starts everything else!

To me nothing else matters if you don’t commit that means you don’t begin and there can be no end without a beginning.

The gist is to focus is on getting clear about what you want in all areas of your life for years to come.

Remember, your goals open up possibilities they give you focus for your future and they call you forward.

If you honor your feelings, your thoughts, and desires – act on them each day!

So think for a moment now – have you at least committed to one goal this year?

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Do you know that you attract something into your life everyday? Whether it’s through your thoughts, or whether say YES or NO to someone at work or at home….but are you being intentional with what you want? Do you realize that you really do have as much power as you want and need to make the things happen in your life that you fantasize about?

The Law Of Attraction Is when you specifically focus on something you want to attract to you, in other words you dress the part, you call it to you verbally, and wrap your thoughts and energy around it through meditation and prayer…with the right belief, the thing you want most in your life during that season, can come to you…can be yours!

If you have nothing specific you can speak in generalities like:

“I want to meet helpful people today or I want to be given useful information today to move me towards my specific goal of “xyz” (and then you say whatever it is that it is for you).

Ensure that when you say things like this that you have a level of expectancy. Every day you should expect good things. Even if you go to a job that you don’t really like, you should still expect good things during the next 8, 9, or 10 hours of your day in the midst of it all. People make work places what they are, and through people, sometimes we can either be a blessing or receive blessings, or be a curse or receive curses…what are you attracting this week, through your thoughts, words, and actions? Be purposeful to align your words, actions and thoughts with your true desires.

Hola, Bella!

I actually am starting to like blogging! Expressing ourselves is so freeing, and there are so many ways to express ourselves 😉 (Next Blog Topic- Ha!). Well today is about affirmations… We are nearing the 3rd month of the year, and, you should have an affirmation to encourage you on the most torn aspect of your life, i.e., whatever is most pressing. So, you don’t have to be long-winded, and it can be quick and easy sayings like something pre-meditated everyday, e.g.,:

“I will operate in love today”

You know, that’s something that you need to say to yourself if you’re challenged in that area, too. I mean, when was the last you said to yourself in the mirror, “I Love You, (insert your name here)”? If you can’t remember when then it’s been too long!

Whether you have a significant other that lately has been a point of contention to you, or, you have a rambunctious teenager thats having a difficult time at school and it’s impacting your ability to relate with him or her…. that “Love” statement becomes even more needed, and should be used even more!

What we put out in the atmosphere comes back to us, and we plant seeds with our words along the way of our journey, and throughout each day.

That one simple statement might be the only one that you need to say to yourself over and over and over again until it’s soaking in your spirit and oozing out of you. Being able to love yourself comfortably, regardless of your relationships with everyone else around you, is the first step to creating your climax in other love relationships.

Your homework – write down 3 affirmations for 3 areas of your life you are believing breakthrough in for 2016. Be specific in  listing out what you want to see happen in those 3 key life areas (see the home page for the 5 ket life areas). Then prioritize them by putting a 1 on the first one you want to have happen, a 2 on the second and 3 on there third.

Starting only with the 1st affirmation until it soaks your spirit, repeat it daily, each day. Start doing this today! Start right now!

Then go ahead and subscribe so we can plug you in to ways to keep you accountable on your journey to change! Your story will encourage others!

Ciao for now, Bella!

Shay Olvia

Hola, Bella!

As we head into 2016, with some of the same old circumstances that will cramp new goals, Accountability is more important than ever!

Accountability forces your deepest desires to become real. A simple plan of tasks executed systematically becomes a subset or milestones that ultimately establish your dreams and wildest goals.

Every goal can be measured by your effort toward it, hence, your progress!

The right partner in your life keeps you accountable to invest your time in completing the tasks rather than wasting idle time in fruitless activity with them.

Accountability helps you practice personal responsibility, putting your interests as the same priority level as those of your children, your boss at work, your customers/clients who pay you.

Today’s Task: First, think about a goal you need help with. Next, figure out whether you have the right support around that will proactively ask you daily whether or not you competed a single task towards your goal. They also need to be able to help you be firm about getting back on track. Finally, ensure that all tasks it takes to completely fulfill your goal have been written down and assigned a completion date. Share with your accountability partner. Voila!

That’s all for this moment – on to the next! Ciao for now, Bella!